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Deborah Bollenbacher Obituary

Deborah Ann Bollenbacher

Deborah A. Bollenbacher, 71, passed away at 12:50 a.m. Friday, Dec. 9, 2022, at Bridge Hospice, Findlay.

Deb was born Feb. 4, 1951, in Lima, to the late T. Forrest and Eileen (Unverferth) Basinger. She married Duane Bollenbacher on July 1, 1983, and they have made Bluffton their home since then.

Deb was a 1969 graduate of Columbus Grove High School and graduate of Toledo Hospital School of Nursing. She was an OB nurse for nearly 40 years in Bluffton, Sidney, and Lima Memorial. After retiring, she thoroughly enjoyed babysitting Cameron and Emerson. She was an active member of St. John's United Church of Christ in Bluffton.

Deb became paralyzed overnight from the chest down June 1, 2016. At first, it was diagnosed as transverse myelitis, but later changed to a spinal stroke at T-7. They explained the symptoms are the same and the treatment is the same â€" there is none. For 6 ½ years, Deb was confined to her bed or the wheelchair. She maintained as active a life as possible until her body just gave out. Deb suffered much, especially this summer and fall when she was in the hospital often. Her husband, Duane, was her caregiver in their home and she had many caring aides, including her latest and very dear caregiver, Ana Oliveria.

Deb was a beautiful, loving, and caring lady of many talents. She was a terrific cook, talented home and garden decorator, beautiful stained-glass artist, and lady who cared for and loved children. Deb was a co-founder of the entirely local and volunteer organization S.H.A.N.N.O.N. (Sharing Hopes And Nourishing Needs Of Neighbors). [The village had been called Shannon before changing to Bluffton.] For many years, she was the organizer and director of the HUGE Community Garage and Craft Sale each February at the Centre at Bluffton.

Besides her husband Duane, she is survived by her son, Noah (Vida) Wakeman of Columbus; stepdaughters, Duanna (John) Osting and Spring Cutlip, both of Troy, Ohio; seven stepgrandchildren; two stepgreat-granddaughters; brother, Randall Basinger of Ottawa, Ohio and Davis, California; Randy's three children and eight grandchildren; and brother-in-law, Leland (Sandie) Bollenbacher of Florida and their five daughters and their families.

Deb was preceded in death by two sisters-in-laws, Susan Basinger and Doris Bollenbacher.

Deb's services will be 11 a.m. Saturday, Dec. 17, 2022, at Chiles-Laman Funeral & Cremation Services, Bluffton. Pastor Jeremy Mann will officiate. Visitation will be 4-8 p.m. Friday, Dec. 16, 2022, and 10-11 a.m. Saturday at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the S.H.A.N.N.O.N. Club, 480 Shannon Street, Bluffton, Ohio, 45817.

Condolences may be expressed to the family at www.chiles-lamanfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Courier on Dec. 10, 2022.

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Jason, Heather, Cameron and Emerson Cox

December 13, 2022

Our hearts are broken - sending thoughts and prayers to you and your Family, Duane.

Deb's impact on our boys is indescribable, and their lives will be forever positively impacted by the time they spent with both of you.

Our condolences

Jim Walls

December 10, 2022

Mr. Bollenbacher
You probably will not remember me
Jim Walls Wapakoneta class of 1975.
Never had the pleasure of meeting your Wife, but it my lose, she sounded like Great Soul.
My sincere condolences for your loss
I took Algebra ll from you my classmates & I always talk about 3"x 5" index cards!
My condolences to your your family also

Linda Ann Hawkey

December 10, 2022

I´m sorry for your loss. Deb was a wonderful, kind, loving sole. I remember her pretty smile that lite up the room.

Deb was my CGHS classmate. I transfer to CGHS middle of our Junior year. Deb befriended me at a time I needed a friend. She was very special person I will not forget.
Linda Ann Hardy-Hawkey

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