Patricia Fariello

Patricia Fariello obituary, Farmingdale, NJ

Patricia Fariello

Patricia Fariello Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ely Funeral Home - Neptune on Mar. 9, 2026.
Patricia Edna Fariello, beloved wife, mother, grandmother,

great-grandmother, sister, aunt, and lifelong resident of the Jersey

Shore, passed away peacefully at home in Farmingdale, NJ on Wednesday,

March 4, 2026, at the age of 90.

Born in Asbury Park, NJ, Patricia grew up in Belmar and Wall Township.

She was a graduate of Manasquan High School. Patricia worked as an

operator at Bell Telephone in Asbury Park and later worked at

Freedman's Bakery in Belmar before retiring from Sears in Ocean

Township.

Patricia and Frank were married in 1954, and together they raised

their family in Shark River Hills before moving to Wall Township. She

loved her family more than anything in the world and especially

cherished the holidays and family gatherings. Patricia was an amazing

cook, known especially for her lasagna and Italian dishes. She enjoyed

many family trips to Disney World over the years. She was a lifelong

New York Yankees fan and rarely missed a game.

She was predeceased by her parents, Harold and Edna Davenport.

Patricia is survived by her devoted husband of 71 years, Frank; her

five children, Patti Lane of Wall, Frank Fariello and his wife Bette

Jo of Wall, Tony Fariello and his wife Kim of Brick, Lisa Meli and her

husband Tom of Wall, and Gena Fariello of Wall. She was the proud and

loving Nana to eight grandchildren: Frank Fariello, Michelle

Trautweiler, Steve Fariello, Michael Lane, Anthony Fariello, Noah

Buehler, Emma Buehler, and Bella Meli. She was also the cherished

Great Nana to six great-grandchildren: Amaya, Jack, Aayla, Frank,

Ireland, and George. She had a special and unique relationship with

each and every one of them.

Patricia is also survived by her three brothers, Ronald Davenport,

Harold Davenport, and Bill Davenport.

In lieu of flowers please consider a memorial donation to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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3316 State Highway 33, Neptune City, NJ 07753

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